Protect Your Child
Talk to your Child
- Be calm and confident before discussing this topic with your child.
- Do not scare your child; your tone should be neutral, educational, and empowering.
- Let your child know that you are always there for them and always want to protect them.
- Talk to your child about the differences between Secret & Surprises.
- Teach your child that the parts of their body that a bathing suit covers are private parts and that no one is allowed to see or touch them there.
- Allow time for your child to process and to ask you questions.
- Have your child identify three safe people they can talk to if someone ever makes them uncomfortable.
- Make talking to your child about body safety an ongoing conversation rather than a one time event.
- It’s important not to interrogate children. Ask simple, open-ended questions in a calm manner: “Is there a time you have felt scared? Has anyone asked you to keep a secret?
Ask questions!
- If your child stays the night elsewhere, know who will be there.
- Notice their behavior around adults before and after being alone with them.
- If your child is reluctant to go certain places or to be with certain people, ask questions.
- Know what your child is doing on their phone, and know passwords.
Remember
Remember
- If a child does reveal something concerning, believe the child.
- Reassure him/her that he/she has done the right thing in telling you and that what happened is absolutely not their fault.
- Please do not interview children or contact the alleged offender.
- Report your concerns to CPS or local law enforcement agency.